God is good?

I never know exactley what to do when something good happens. Is it God? Did he reward me for something I have been faithfull in? I have no problem giving God the glory and as I write that last bit i realize its not totally true because I like to think im pretty smart too. But if God is the creator of all things then should he not get the glory for the good things that happen to us. My next question is then is he not responsible for the bad then as well which leads me right back to my last post which wondered how you have a relationship with God in the first place.Tough stuff these days and yet i think God hooked me up the other day with more work. We were going to hit a three week lul and i was stressing out and then because of hard work and good quality we were demanded on the next project by the contractor who is building the house we are siding right now. We have only done this for 6 months at the most and we were requested above the #1 siding crew for SIS exteriors. Im still pretty proud and will therefore get cut down abit at some point but im riding the wave till then. I have always strived to be the best at whatever I do and while This may not make us the best siders in the valley it doesnt mean we arent last :)

just cause Ian asked

I havent blogged lately because i havent had much to say. since my mother in law passed away i havent really felt like pouring my heart into anything. Too much cranky to come out. Which is probably what has got me going again. That and the fact Ian was giving me the gears. My beef these day sis christianese. The next person that tells me God has a plan for whats going on will probably get a punch in the throat. I just cant handle the stupid things that people say to try to describe "christian" things. One of the last ones was someone said they needed to let God riegn over them. Which brings me to a tough question about our relationship with God. How do you have a relatioship with someone that rules over you. God didnt creat man so he had something to play with like his own reality game. he created us for a relationship. to converse with to have a life with. and then somehow we have turned it into this serious over rule. I could be missing it completely but i just dont see how i can have a relatioship with someone that is going to rule over me. i mean that seems impossible.